If I delite one template and put in another ...why does the old one still show?

I was just starting to think I got the blog templates all figured out.. Bamm  problems again!!  I went and delited to the template I had over the weekend cause I wanted summery colors.  Well I found the perfect template but it showed for a minute and disappeared.  I delited it and put in the template from google, but then it showed the template I had done the other day.  Oh NO!!  God give me patience.

The good news is that I finally got my picture scanned so I could frame it for a belated father's day gift.  I  cropped, softened the view in picasa and cut and framed this picture.  I think it's so precious!  My daughter saw it and said.  That is when Daddy liked me.  Aww that made me sad.  We've been having problems with her with school and following directions.  He has been hounding her and I'm trying to get him to back off.  He's trying but he's so worried about her.  I told him that she's going to be ok.  She has been to therapy and talking with two of the school councelors.  Now she just wants to start over.

Over the summer I'm going to review her math with her but having her work on math software.  I posted a link to the software that I decided on.I wanted to find something that she enjoyed.  Her dad wanted her to do work sheets.  I told him that it would be too much work to just get her to do the work.  I know that the math games will teach her and help her.  Since I have a credential in Elementary Teaching I think I know what I'm talking about.  This is what has upset me is that he is insinuating that he knows more.  It hurts my feelings and drives me nuts.  I'm fighting for my sanity these days.  When he acted like he knew best, I looked up the math standards for 6th grade in California.  I made a note of what skills she should know and then I pointed out that those skills are what is covered on the Clue Finder's software.  Then  I showed it to my daughter and she said, That is exactly what I need.  He is still arguing with me.  I told him to calm down.  If you knew him you'd understand that I'm not being too harsh.  He has OCD and refuses to get help for it.  Instead he blames me for things that go wrong. 

The reality is that we are married in name only because we can't afford to seperate and get a divorce now.  Since I'm disabled but not elligible for disability I'm between a rock and a hard place.  This is why I'm working so hard to get my blog and my website working.  Would you believe that he is a graphic designer and I'm stuck trying to figure stuff out?

Yesterday afternoon I showed him my blog.  I was proud about being able to link what we were doing with different products.  He later told me I wanted things both ways.  I said what do you mean.  He saw that I had mentioned my husband.  I said well I could have called you my child's dad but the reality is that you are my husband and I was talking about us enjoying father's day with our friends.

Ok I'm done venting!!  At least for now. :)